1. Introduction: The Give & Get Approach to Networking
Networking: How would you define it? Many people associate it solely with professional success, job hunting, or business growth. But networking extends far beyond the workplace—it influences every aspect of life.
As human beings, we are naturally connected in networks. We thrive in communities, relying on relationships to accomplish goals and grow personally. This doesn’t take away from our individuality; rather, it enhances our ability to learn, share, and uplift one another.
This week, our mentors, Jill and Andreas Lex, led discussions on the power of networking. They introduced the “Give & Get” concept—offering help, advice, and support as a way to foster meaningful connections. The key takeaway? You must put yourself out there first before expecting anything in return.
2. The Essence of Networking: Building Authentic Relationships
Networking isn’t just about handing out business cards or making small talk at events. At its core, it’s about kindness and curiosity. When you show genuine interest in others, you naturally build honest and lasting relationships.
Many people ask, “How do I network effectively?” The answer lies in authenticity. Networking isn’t about transactional exchanges; it’s about forming connections that enrich both parties. The more you invest in people—through kindness, curiosity, and generosity—the stronger your network becomes.
Jill and Andreas shared personal reflections on how networking has shaped their lives. Their professional and personal growth has been deeply influenced by the connections they’ve made, reinforcing the idea that networking is more than a skill—it’s a way of life.
3. Networking in Action: Real-Life Lessons
The power of networking is not just theoretical—it’s something we see in action every day. Jill and Andreas experienced firsthand how networking opened doors for their children, proving that connections often lead to unexpected opportunities.
Whether their children were in school, seeking internships, or applying for jobs, they encouraged them to use their networks. A simple conversation with a friend, mentor, or professor could be the key to a new opportunity. At first, some of them hesitated, saying, “No, we’re fine.” But in the end, about 80% of their friends secured jobs through personal connections.
This lesson is clear: networking isn’t just useful—it’s essential. Opportunities often arise from the relationships we cultivate, and making connections can take us places we never imagined.
4. Overcoming Hesitations & The Bigger Perspective
For some people, networking comes naturally—especially extroverts who seem to make friends wherever they go. But what about introverts?
The good news is that networking isn’t limited to any one personality type. Introverts may approach networking differently, but they, too, can build meaningful relationships. The key is to find ways to connect that feel authentic, such as engaging in one-on-one conversations, joining small groups, or leveraging online platforms to nurture relationships over time.
One of the biggest barriers to networking is hesitation—whether due to pride, fear of rejection, or discomfort in asking for help. But in reality, networking is a two-way street where both parties benefit. Mentors, for example, don’t just give; they receive immense fulfillment from the relationships they build with students.
Another important perspective shift: If you only consume media, it might seem like the world is full of negativity. But when you step into spaces like Cumorah Academy, you see the goodness around you. Networking isn’t just about professional success—it’s about surrounding yourself with inspiring individuals who uplift and support each other.
5. Final Thoughts: A Lesson for Life & Faith
“Create your own path, but trust that the Lord will place you where He wants you, when He wants you there.”
These words from Jill and Andreas reflect what we at Cumorah Academy want for every student. Faith doesn’t mean giving up on your dreams—it means believing that the Lord will guide you to where you’re meant to be.
Jill shared, “My hope is that they will continue investing in themselves, believing in their abilities, and trusting in the Lord’s guidance.”
That is our hope as well. Success isn’t just about titles, wealth, or recognition. True success comes from making an impact—by developing your strengths, working hard, and allowing faith to guide your journey.
Join Us at Cumorah Academy
If you’re ready to grow, build meaningful connections, and step into your full potential, Cumorah Academy is the perfect place for you. Our mentorship programs provide the support, guidance, and inspiration you need to navigate your path.
Take the next step—apply today and start building the network that will shape your future.
Written by Fernando L. Ferreira Jr.
Photos by Felipe Echeverri
Supervision by Kamila Uberto Fullmer
